Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy- what is it?

Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy is a form of psychotherapy that focuses on understanding and resolving the internal conflicts that exist within a person's psyche. IFS therapy posits that each individual has a "Self" and various subpersonalities, or "parts," that exist in a system and can interact in positive or negative ways. The goal of IFS therapy is to help individuals understand their parts, identify the underlying emotional pain that drives negative behavior, and ultimately bring the parts into a harmonious relationship with the Self. This is achieved through the use of guided visualization, mindfulness, and other therapeutic techniques that allow the person to explore and process their internal experiences. IFS therapy has been found to be effective in treating a range of mental health issues, including anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship difficulties.

Here is a basic script for an Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy visualization:

  1. Find a quiet and comfortable place to sit or lie down. Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths.

  2. Imagine a safe and protected space in your mind, a place where you feel secure and at peace. This could be a place in nature, a room in your home, or anywhere else that feels safe to you.

  3. Invite your "parts" to come forward and show themselves to you. Parts are subpersonalities or aspects of your personality that hold emotions, thoughts, and behaviors. Imagine them as distinct entities within you.

  4. Address each part individually, speaking to them as if they are separate from you. Ask each part what it wants, what it is feeling, and what it needs. Listen carefully to their responses and acknowledge their feelings.

  5. When you feel ready, invite your "Self" to come forward. This is the part of you that is calm, centered, and aware. Ask your Self to guide and protect you as you continue with the visualization.

  6. Imagine that your parts are in front of you and that you can see them clearly. Ask each part what it wants, what it is feeling, and what it needs. Listen to their responses and acknowledge their feelings.

  7. Imagine that you are now able to talk to your parts and bring them comfort and peace. Reassure them that they are safe and that you will take care of them.

  8. Ask your Self to help you bring all the parts into a harmonious relationship with each other. Visualize the parts becoming more peaceful and connected to each other and to your Self.

  9. When you feel ready, slowly open your eyes and return to the present moment. Take a few deep breaths and acknowledge any feelings or insights that may have arisen during the visualization.

This is just one example of an IFS visualization script. The specifics of the visualization may vary depending on the individual's needs and the guidance of their therapist.

Amy Lowery